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late bloomer navigating real life with all kinds of internal and external shit

when masturbation is a problem (for non-linear thinkers and adhd)

Comfort through masturbation became an escape from a frustrating life, linked to undiagnosed ADHD. It offered temporary relief from stress and feeling lost but didn't address root issues like lack of purpose or financial worries. Choosing to face discomfort and redirecting that energy can lead to real growth and a more fulfilling life.
2 weeks ago
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base note

Simple text and tagging for enjoyable writing. Basic folder management keeps your thoughts organized. Capture ideas freely and connect them with ease.
3 weeks ago
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if everything feels like a waste of time

Money stress makes all time feel wasted, causing pressure and futility, leading to time anxiety and numbness that worsens with age. I feel guilty for relaxing, demotivated by hopelessness, and anxious about limited time, creating frustration. I'm trying low-pressure experiments, device-free outings, meditation, deep breathing, and garden tea breaks to cope.
4 weeks ago
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AI – side quests and shiny objects

Ai makes so much possible. As someone drawn to creativity and inspired by curiosity, it’s hard to avoid starting any of the thousands of new things it now enables me to do.
4 weeks ago
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Inner narratives… you vs mind.

That voice in your head calling you a failure? ❌ cancel it. Went from "struggle bunny" to motivated by examining my inner dialogue. Lazy? Selfish? Find the plot holes in your narrative. the key to your future starts in your mind.
1 month ago
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power without the panic: avoid overwhelm with LLM aI

How I leverage AI in my workflow, keeping it on a leash to avoid overwhelm for my ADHD-i (ADD) head.
1 month ago
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The dip and the grit

I find my purpose by linking my interests to solving real problems for others. This purpose guides me, uniting my skills and giving me the grit to push through challenges.
1 month ago
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Stop Waiting for Motivation. Just Start Doing

Motivation's unreliable; waiting means less doing. The secret is *action* first. Doing, even a little, creates the feeling of wanting to do more. Action builds momentum, unlike waiting for motivation to magically appear. If your mind wanders like mine, waiting for perfect motivation is frustrating. We need to engage, experiment, and move, not just wish.
1 month ago
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the stories we tell ourselves

I believe our unrecognized self-beliefs restrict us, despite our potential for personal change. Although my methods aren't academic, I'm keen to understand. Here are perspectives from the relevant fields.
1 month ago
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writing with ai – augmenting creativity

Just because you are using AI, doesn't make your writing any less yours - IF you keep these things in mind.Β 
1 month ago
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  • AI – side quests and shiny objects
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  • power without the panic: avoid overwhelm with LLM aI
  • The dip and the grit
  • Stop Waiting for Motivation. Just Start Doing
  • the stories we tell ourselves
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